Families, ageing parents,

Over the last number of years we have had the privilege of working with many wonderful people. Some of the issues we have covered have been to do with our ageing process and the worries that go along with the same for the families involved. Ultimately our main aim is bringing harmony and 50/50 understanding to all and making the sufferers life as contented as possible. 

Often there can be discord or family fall outs, or jealousies or the feeling that some members of the family do more than others. 

Often this is understood due to the mileage between them but what we sometimes forget is that the sufferer is silently missing these members greatly although just a small telephone conversation can fill this heart felt pain.

Often we have our own kids and end up running after them the majority of the time, when in fact just one weekend our of 5 or 6 we could have given up just to go and visit our own parents, remembering they are forever talking about us and indeed our children to who ever they come across on a daily basis, remembering that we are often their main interest now, and a daily topic of conversation for many, yet often weeks go by before a phone call or visit is made or your voice is heard. 

On that note, and having felt the pain of many wonderful older individuals, please can you make a bit more contact with your Parents or Grandparents, even if it is through a friends Skype programme or some other form of modern technology. Above all don't necessarily believe all that you hear from one of your parents as they may well be in denial about the true health of the other, or perhaps next time you are visiting you could 'accidentally' bump in to a friendly neighbour - they are sure to know what is going on, and might, if asked kindly, even give you regular updates.

On the other hand, if for some reason, only one of your parents seem to be answering the phone, please, make a point of visiting, perhaps there might be some form of  issue going on making the other feel unhappy or as if they are being controlled. 

Even if your parents have split and re-married you still have a right to see your own parent, even although some 'inlaws can make this awkward'. Every so often try and make a point of seeing your parent at least once every few months on their own, just to make sure they are okay. 

It is of course understood that some children just do not have contact with their parents at all - and for reasons they will only know, but for those who do still have contact perhaps this poem might help during troubled times. 

Please do not hesitate to contact us if you have any problems that you are finding difficult to resolve  as there is always a key to unlock all problems and for the ease of ageing these keys are imperative for their health and general well-being. Thank you. 

Some nights I stand at the oceans edge, 

with memories of happy days,

skimming stones and fishing bays 

with parents, siblings and friends around

Good days, bad days, fall out days and happy days,

even days when we would stumble and fall

but who was their? our parents with bandages and all.

Always food in the cupboards and on the table,

Clothes on our shoulders, shoes on our feet,

jackets to wear on those cold wintery days.

Lifts to school, or money for a bus,

or for the sports we wanted to play,

O weren't our parents so good to us.

They dedicated their lives to us

working hard to support our needs,

But often we forget they had their own history,

the inevitable pains, the hurt, the fear and their lives

to live as well as being parents to us. 

When the seed of adulthood grows within us

we fly the nest to start our Mission,

Our new found independence often takes over,

parties, freedom and the big wide world

sometimes makes the distance between us so much greater.

Until a life experience makes us stumble or quiver

and once again our parents came to the rescue

to encourage us, love us, support us

perhaps to reprimand for one or all.

But to be sure they are/were always there for us

no matter the age, issue or fall

How lucky we are to have them there for us.

Time goes on, perhaps a decade or two,

With perhaps a job secured, a marriage and kids.

Our parents, by this time have regained a life,

and mostly support our choice in life including our strife.

There comes a time when troubled bridges mend

but this can take a few years or a decade or two.

Regrets can be huge but love always returns in the end.

But time doesn't stand still for no man or you.

Our, once tall parents, seem smaller, more aged and frail

and all of a sudden role reversal is in front of you.

Frustration, irritation, denial and more 

can soon take over, with independence

and freedom and love being starved by all.

But if only understanding, acceptance and patience 

was encouraged instead of frustration, 

irritation, denial and more.

Our ageing relations held a place in Society for many a year, 

and stood their ground for us when we were there

For some, ill health comes along bringing many a fall

leaving their memory scattered from here to there,

forgetting the plates go in the cupboards standing tall

or the pans go in the cupboard o, so small

causing,for sure, much frustration for one and all.

We must remember for those we hold so dear 

patience, love and 50/50 understanding is the key

for all to follow, not anger, denial, dread or fear. 

Always remember, yesterday was yesterday and we must let it go,

tomorrow is tomorrow and today is today,

so please, come what may, accept the happenings of this day.

Some children can not cope with the change 

and choose to stay away, 

but it doesn't necessarily mean their love has gone.

Some children are stronger, more able to cope,

perhaps thanks to their experiences of life to date.

For others they suffer from regrets and guilt

perhaps because their visits were all too late.

Many a sufferer understands, but it doesn't take away the pain, 

that missing pain of the child who has gone astray, 

the one who doesn't seem to visit again.

But guaranteed your voice will be heard again

restoring the spirit and releasing that pain.

For many, you know you do your best 

for others who feel guilt and regret, let it be

you have your reasons, don't be ashamed,

maybe write a poem or letter and lay it all to rest.

Hold on to the memories, though perhaps troubled, happy or sad

but remember always you tried your best and that you are loved 

as much as you were from the day you were born. 

Please, don't live in yesteryears, take each day as it comes, 

embrace each smile and tiny expression

and welcome tomorrow as a brand new day.

Share laughter and the things remembered

acknowledge, quietly, each tiny expression.

Above all please accept each stage of illness

try hard not to shout or get frustrated,

you're the lucky one who can remember,

you're the one who can bring sunshine to a broken mind or heart,

you're the one who can, gently, introduce others to share your role 

guiding them to all dislikes and likes they know,

But be sure to choose the right person though,

or ask for a change if there's no connection

All this will alleviate pressure, which can, truly, be felt by all,

giving each a comforting break balancing out the 

sorely tempted denial, anger, fear and frustration,

resulting in contentment for one and all for ever. 

Nature's Physician

Help all victims post . . .

Another find today . . . there are many reasons why humans can be so cruel, and there is a certain amount we can all put up with, but there is a limit as to how much our systems, our families and friends can cope with . . . try helping someone today towards a healthier lifestyle.

We are all put on this planet for a reason but abuse is not one of them.

If you know of anyone, young, middle aged or old, who is showing signs of distress, physical abuse or indeed mental abuse, please gently and quietly help them find a healthier path to walk.

On behalf of many - thank you

Bullying and Intimidation of the Local kind . . .

Intimidation of the 'local kind'

A brief meaning of Intimidation which can sometimes sadly be persistent: offensive, abusive, insulting behaviour which can be in both physical and verbal form

We have already discussed Intimidation on a larger scale or relating to larger Companies threatening smaller Companies but what we forget sometimes is the intimidation that goes on within our daily lives. Sadly, both Children and Adults can be the instigators of this type of negative behaviour, and in many cases, until caught or indeed taught otherwise, these individuals seem to feel this kind of behaviour is acceptable. However, one of the saddest things about this type of behaviour is that Adults are often the individuals who instill in their children that this type of behaviour is considered acceptable.

Often this form of intimidation, for the moment let's classify them as :

1. 'Individual intimidation' 

This can be initiated or triggered on line, or on a one to one basis within Schools, Playgrounds, Public Parks, The home, in the Workplace and even on a bus or train. 

 2. Group or 'Tribal Intimidation' 

This can often be triggered sometimes by just one person who then tries hard to encourage others on board or in Groups/Sets of Individuals and can be experienced in School, The Playground, Public Parks, High School, College, University, within the Workplace, At Public and Closed Events, Public transport, Leisure Centres as well as many other places where the Public gather or Groups Gather.

Let us dissect No 1, please, feel free to comment or add any of your experiences or thoughts to this post and just in case you do not wish to put your own name to the post you do have the option of signing it as anonymous, or perhaps you would prefer to send an email regarding your thoughts and we can add them accordingly.

The online Intimidator generally only feels brave to type, what can be, cruel words from behind a screen (Individual intimidation). Yet if you come across these particular individuals on a one to one basis or on a street they would not have the confidence to either face you, talk to you or indeed walk at the same side of the street as you, in fact they would more than probably cross to the other side of the road, unless of course they are in their known Group (Group intimidation) or within a Group that they have encouraged to act in a similar manner. However, often the victim of such behaviour chooses to cross the road before the abuser! If the Victim could try hard to have the confidence to stay at their chosen side of the street but perhaps just walk closer to another pedestrian at the time of passing the abuser, even although by this time the abuser will more than probably have walked across the other side by this time any way

Children, teenagers, 'vulnerable' and  individuals who lack in confidence or who have perhaps had a knock in confidence for what ever reason sadly seem to be the main victims suffering from cyber bullying, there are many sites on line that can help with this so do not be frightened to type your specific questions in to Chief Inspector Google, here is one link http://nobullying.com/bullying-uk-2015/ that could be useful.

But what are the signs of cyber bullying – Your child or a child you know may show signs of

• Being withdrawn
• A change of his/her known behavoiur 
• Being anxious 
• Wishing to stay at home more or being around you more 
• Signs of depression, teary, angry, subdued 
• Aggression 
• Sleeping issues 
• Change in eating habits – eating more or less 
• Bed wetting 
• Wanting to miss school 
• Showing signs of Truancy 
• Nightmares 
• Takes more risks 
• Self Harms (in more areas than one)
• Obsessive behaviour 

An interesting link on the impact of bullying for not just the victim but the bully themselves as well as bystanders and the families of both the victim and the bully can be found at this link http://www.education.vic.gov.au/about/programs/bullystoppers/Pages/impact.aspx within this link there are also additional links that can guide/advise parents towards the next step in solving issues such as these. 

When it comes to children or students it is imperative to try and resolve these issues earlier rather than later on in life, so, if you know of any child who is showing any of the above signs please advise their next of kin or someone within their family who you can trust to resolve this painstaking and extremely upsetting experience for any youngster to experience. After all, if an individual can learn to cope with issues at an earlier age then their confidence to cope with issues in their future life as an adult will be easier and much more encouraging for others.

So let's go to the next stage up from the playground, let's say one child falls out with another, the normal way to resolve this would be to find out what happened from both sides and a conclusion and apology is made to either party, or both, and suggestions made if such an event was to happen again. However, some parents feel their children do no wrong and only their story is correct. In this instance often there are signs of hostility, bad mouthing, intimidating comments made, but worse still these are often said in front of the child, which, at the end of the day, also plants the seed that they (the child) in the future, can behave like this, then all of a sudden, let's say the possessive parent has 4 children playing, then all of a sudden you have the potential of 4 more youngters growing in to being intimidating individuals or becoming participants of for example Hostile Aggressive Parenting - http://www.hostile-aggressive-parenting.com/symptoms_of_hap.asp and all because one of their parents showed them that this type of behaviour is seen as acceptable in front of others! 

Another common reason, is snobbery sadly, some parents feel they are better than others, which is often, not the case. This is an issue that rises its' ugly head quite frequently, but which in many cases should be resolved or a half way house met and each individuals circumstance taken in to consideration. The other children and Adults who can go through a difficult time are those from one parent families, once again this is not the child, children's or the Adults fault and their situation should be given understanding and perhaps a little extra thought regarding what it must feel like for them all. 

Above all we need to remember we are all human, we all have a heart, we all have a history, sometimes sad, sometimes difficult, Some have too much, some have too little. More often than not it's those who have little who have the biggest heart and those who have too much who consider themselves on a different planet and who make things awkward for others or make others perhaps worse off than themselves, feel uncomfortable. We are all brought in to the world in the same way just as we go out the same way and in real terms we are alive for such a short period of time, wouldn't it just be wonderful if all could accept each other on an equal level without the 'intentional divisions created by greed'

Back on to intimidation - Perhaps you know someone who is being intimidated at work – if so here are another couple of handy links  http://nobullying.com/intimidation-at-work-choosing-to-not-be-a-victim/      http://www.kickbully.com/basic.html This link has a number of positive actions to take whether the bullying is going on in the workplace or elsewhere, worthwhile taking a look.

But the most important thing to know is how to handle such situations as they present themselves. Of course each and every situation is going to be slightly different but at the core there is the same feelings, although different, experienced by both the victim and the abuser, so what can you, as a child or even as an adult do to prevent this or indeed protect yourself and others from what can become repeated experiences from such individuals.

If you bite to an abusers bait then they will probably give you more hassle, but on the other hand, human behaviour can be similar to that of fishing, if you put some bait down for a fish, the fish will bite just as a human will. Granted no one knows what triggers an abuser, and it may well be something that you did not do, but there will be something rest assured, so, firstly if you sense something try not to irritate the issue any further. If something has triggered the abuser, the abuser will then start to feed off your reaction leading to further verbal abuse or indeed physical abuse just like a dry sponge soaks up water. In fact often these types of people, once something has triggered them, tend to stick together, live within a close proximity from others of this sort, which can sadly result in 'Group Bullying or Tribal' bullying/manipulation/bribery/intimidation/hostility towards youngsters and adults.

Group or Tribal bullying adds another dimension on to individuals who they have decided to attack. Their behaviour can prevent the victims from going to Public events, Group events, Social gatherings, Sports centres and similar venues. This is a tricky situation but again, as long as you are amongst friends or another Group of individuals do not feel threatened by the negative group as once again evidence can be experienced and seen by others. Perhaps mention, on the quiet, to a couple of trusting members of your Group that you are anxious and they will give you the extra support you need. If you find yourself going in to a shop and they are there, don't worry, again you have the shop staff to back you up especially if you are on your own.

However, with this Group also comes another Group, the Group who do not have the confidence to stand against the negative Group or indeed the confidence to support the sufferer of abuse, yes, you've got it, the type that would rather keep the peace. In a way this second Group almost gives confidence to the first Group with the added thought that they are right, when in fact they are wrong and sadly giving the negative Group additional feeling of 'Power'. You often find these negative types of Groups commenting on Facebook, or on Facebook Grouped pages, but more often than not the Administrators of the Groups stop negative attitude and comments, at least until the next time. So all in all it doesn't take much to see what these negative Groups are made of. Especially the 'behind the screen bravado' type  of Group

So now to some suggestions of how to handle such situations.

1. Stay calm 
2. Do not bite to their bait 
3. Where possible you will need evidence, so practice putting your phone or ipod on record without being seen by the abuser or ask a friend to quietly do this but do not tell or show the abuser that you are doing this at any stage. 
4. Give the abuser and yourself some space, the more in the face you go to them the more they will react. 
5. Walk with friends, genuine friends, like minded folk, caring individuals 
6. Walk quietly in to the nearest shop or public place and ask to use their phone to call someone, or say, can I stay in here for a minute because I am a bit anxious. 
7. Warn others of trigger points 
8. Stay calm and do not return until the problem is resolved or unless you have sufficient back up to support you. 
9. Do not hesitate to call the Police, especially if you have evidence or ask someone else to phone the police, but having evidence from a previous experience would be advantageous or at least the names of a couple of witnesses. 

But above all, no matter how much you might have been threatened, at some stage, it is much better to tell someone, whether it be a member of your family, a friend, your Doctor or indeed the Police. But for the Police, to have evidence would give a much quicker response. 

Also remember, you are not on your own, thousands of people are attacked in this way, and stopping one abuser could save hundreds of others from experiencing what you have experienced. We need to try and prevent abusers from doing this to others and often it is only with the help of adults as well as the Law that can reduce such dreadful and damaging crimes happening.

It would be wonderful if we could change the abusers or predators towards being protectors . . . so perhaps, just perhaps we should take a little time to understand why this type of an individual is so aggressive or sensitive. There are ways of doing this but they can be fairly complex.

In the meantime some of the following reasons could be why they react so; 

1. A controlling up bringing
2. Too free a rein when young, or a childhood without boundaries
3. Rebelliousness due to a lack of understanding of their needs when they were younger
4. Feeling of lack of self worth
5. Bullied themselves in earlier life
6. Abusive parent(s)
7. Lack of parent guidance perhaps due to both working.
8. Alcohol/drug usage within the family circle
9. Their personal hang up from an experience in their past
10. Their lack of respect for what is acceptable and what is not
11. Their lack of respect for listening to reason
12. Their lack of experience or understanding of problem solving strategies from an early age 

But the most important thing is clear – they have a massive lack of respect for humans and that all living creatures have a right to share this planet/playpark/activities or whatever the venue with all.

Often once the younger bullies are re-directed it's generally found they have massive hearts and just need a little extra understanding and careful support. 

When it comes to older teenagers or adults, then this type of an abuser is a bit more difficult to re-direct purely because they have got away with controlling their life, parents, families, wife, children and even their work colleagues and employees for so long resulting in little or no respect for anyone. Or perhaps they have held a controlling position within their workplace. But the one way they can be and should be brought in to check is proof, yes proof that they have said and done what you said they had said and done. Which is where recording on the q.t. comes in and the Law can take over. Even worse still however are those who are in Power or in the limelight – such positions can also breed a nasty variety. Often victims from this type of an abuser are too frightened to say or do anything, when in their heart of hearts they know they should but perhaps due to threats, or bribery they are encouraged to keep quiet, at least until someone else is strong enough to take their case forward.

What ever the case, no one has to put up with abuse, whether it be verbal, psychological or indeed physical. So, find a friend or member of the family or even your local MSP or Doctor, speak to them and help prevent others from experiencing what you have experienced.

So, the final message in this little post is, 

Stay strong, stay calm and keep track of all evidence and prevent others from going through the same. 

Intimidating behaviour (WHITE)
Potential signs that someone is  a Victim of negative behaviour/(ORANGE)
In brief - How to resolve the issues (GREEN AND YELLOW)

Perhaps a little message for all who feel intimidated or find themselves in a situation they can not get away from, rather than reacting go for the softly softly approach, perhaps these bullet points might help; 

The other form of Intimidation, Bullying and Manipulation also often goes on within families where one of the partners is suffering from issues such as Vascular Dementia/Alzheimer's but this we will go in to in another post. This can have horrific consequences on the sufferer and, sadly in many cases goes on unseen, or behind closed doors leaving the victim feeling ; inadequate, useless, frightened, isolated even more than normal, as if he/she is walking on egg shells with the feeling he/she needs to hide in his/her room, only appearing when shouted on or called for.

Please share this worldwide . . millions of people

Millions of people these days are suffering from health issues such as Vascular Dementia, Alzheimer's and other mental health issues. 

Some people find it difficult to communicate with these sufferers, but can you imagine what it must be like for the sufferer, especially if they understand every word you say but just can't get the correct words back out to reply.

Millions of people all over the world are stuck in hospitals for whatever reason, or taken in because of a fall or a stroke, their world around them suddenly changes from the one they have known for so long. The new surroundings, the new smells and sounds confuse them even more to the point that even the questions they used to be able to answer lie frozen. 

All this can cause further confusion, frustration, fear and anxiety, why not help some one you know.  Type something up like this example from Tom, or create a list and leave it on the  little table beside their chair. Transition periods of any sort can be bad enough but when confused, transitions periods seem as bad and as frightening as the worst thing you can ever imagine.

This is not an easy transition period for any one. . . and is one we all sadly, at some stage share . . many of you will know this feeling LINK

Please, share this photo . . more of the world need to know what it feels like . . on behalf of many, thank you so much. 

Here are some more useful links relating to our, often misunderstood elderly .

Understanding our Elderly

A few Poems

Help our Elders and Nursing Staff

Bridging the comfort gap

Spread the word

Encourage social eating habits

Theradays

What we miss once our elders are gone

Be prepared this winter 

Suffocated, imprisoned . . .

About a third of Alzheimer's cases could be preventable

Giving our Elders their well deserved voice

We hope the above links will help to make many peoples last years, months and days as comfortable and non threatening to them as possible. Thank you for taking time to glance through them. 

Are you Gluten intolerant . . .

Gluten has got an awful lot more to answer for than the NHS think.

Gluten can also have a similar negative side effects on animals

Although the NHS may have all the up to date equipment and procedures to test individuals for a gluten intolerance or allergy these tests do not seem to be hitting others chemical balances who have a sensitivity towards specific gluten based and gluten free foods.


From all the diet sheets to date that we have been asked to look in to, and create, for individuals with a wide variety of health issues which have resulted, by our methods, in them having an intolerance to Gluten, it is clear that the NHS is missing a large percentage of people and is leaving the same amount of people confused, paranoid and upset. Paranoid because, for some, the Doctors are saying, there is nothing the matter, when clearly there is. But thanks to our method and other alternative methods people are being given a chance to feel healthy again.

So why is it, with all this technology the NHS are missing the Gluten intolerance or sensitivity in so many people.

Has Modern technology become too complex?

Could it be that it would be too financially expensive for the production market to reduce the 'Gluten in foods' who knows, there could be many a reason or indeed it could just be that they are genuinely unable to trace such fine sensitivities which, can become progressively worse if taken over a long period of time.

This is an interesting article to read . . . .

This also applies to sugar intolerances. One of the things we all tend to forget about are the natural sugars in fruits and vegetables, each of which can have a negative effect on various parts of our bodies, i.e. skin, our nether regions as well as our energy levels and mental state. 

If you are struggling or indeed being told by your Doctors that they can't find what is wrong, or that you are fine! or are suggesting you take this liquid or that medication, why not give your body a natural chance to be better by eating specific foods for your specific chemical balance. For those who have asked for diet sheets, of which there have now been many,  rarely have we found two people to have  the same chemical balance, but the best thing of all is they, after  just a matter of days, and nine times out of ten,  feel better than they have for months and often years.  

Don't let your body or your pets body suffer any longer, we are here to help you to find the most natural way to a healthier life style and way of life before negative foods get a hold of your health. 

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Don't you use treats for solving animal problems?

One of the many comments made during sessions when we go and solve animal issues is 'don't you use treats (as in food treats) to get the animals to stop their problem'  and our answer is ' The only time we give a 'food' treat is occasionally at the end of each session or if there is an animal so scared or scarred from human kind otherwise it is always 50/50 communication. 

As many of the owners have said ' we can't believe what you have done for our animals, within such a short period of time, it's amazing ' or 

Dogs

• We have never seen our animals respond so quickly
• We have never seen our dog so calm 
• We have never seen our dog connect so well
• We have never seen our dog actually genuinely ask for something in a way that is silently understood by all, with out verbal acknowledgment
• Our dog never plays yet you have shown them how to play after years of their whole life of not playing
• Our dog actually listens to us now, not necessarily by using our voice but by using specific eye commands
• Our dog used to chase things yet you have managed to find their natural forte which re-directs their initial thought of 'chasing' to concentration of the tool in mouth or simply by us changing our own body language
• Our dog used to have the runs all the time and after many hours at the Vets with no results we asked if you could take a look and after 36 hours and feeding him what you suggested his stools are solid

Horses/Cows/Bulls

• Our horse used to bull doze us but now he listens
• Our horse never used to like being stabled but now is the first one to come in
• Our horse used to be petrified of this or that, yet you have solved it
• Our horse used to hate being put in to a trailer for years, but after one session you solved it
• Our horse had skin issues but after one Session and listening to your suggestions the skin issue has gone
• Our horse used  to buck as soon as your foot went in to the stirrup but after a couple of Sessions he soon realised that it wasn't so bad after all.
• Our horse used to hate having his hooves picked up but after one session this issue was solved
• Our horse used to have watery stools but after changing his diet they looked like normal horse stools
• Our Show  Bull had major skin issues prior to a Show but after changing his food and lathering him in an ointment suggested by you he was able to go to the Show after all .
• We asked you to train a bull for a sale, the friendly way and you did it - we were amazed

"ALL WITH OUT USING FOOD as a tool - Amazing and it has taught us to do the same . . "

So what is it or how do you do it? is generally the next question and our answer is - by using the most powerful language of our universe and it's called 'Universal language'  Every animal has its' own key, it's own forte and it's all about tapping in to that at the correct second and not a minute later or indeed a minute earlier. 

Please give all your animals  this chance before they could become controlling of you or your family or before the bribery introduced creates a corrupt animal resulting in false trust and a nip or a kick or head but. On behalf of many misunderstood animals, thank you for taking time to read this post.

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And an update on Lauder Lass, the horse who has touched and continues to touch the hearts of many ., . .

And another wonderful update on Lauder Lass

And a very special visitor who had a very special something to say  . . .

Universal Language

Universal language - 

We would be interested to know your answer . . 

A powerful language which all living creatures use but one which humans (who live in the modern world) tend to ignore or one that they do not realise can be more powerful, as well as so much less threatening than a days worth of conversation.

It is something for example that your own pet uses every minute of the day or elephants use when sensing their route for their daily meander, or something they use when they come across a carcass of their own kind, or something they sense when a neighbouring elephant has lost its' calf. Just as they sense what is good for them to eat and what is not, therefore instinctively and so naturally, but more importantly, teaching their young the same. Just as a herd of sheep or cattle know to head for shelter hours before a rain or snow storm is on the way or when they sense another is about to give birth, or just as an animal, who has been in distress, can sense who is 'safe' to be with and who is not, or as an animal who senses an another animal in distress will often try and help just as this link shows. Just as most animals can make their way to water (apart from most humans except for out back or tribal communities).

So why is it humans (who live in the modern world) have lost this unique art of using THE most powerful language of all 'Universal language' yet tribes and their families have not? The answer is simple really. Life in the modern world has become too easy, press a button and your heating, cooker, hot water, kettle, electric blanket, light and many other things go on.

Exactly the same ease happens when you walk down the aisles of shops or supermarket and your eyes or your own thoughts of what's easiest or quickest to cook take over and not your inner most senses or the basic animal instinct when, if used, instinctively would say no ' that's not good or healthy. Or on a different tack sensing what this person or that animal is feeling without having to ask them or without having to use our tongues by saying ' and what's up today then?'. Life in the modern world has taken a turn for the worse, but yet, if universal language was used as well as our own language then the contentment and understanding for each other, no matter the animal or breed, would be 100% better than it is today in both communicating with those with communication issues as well as letting our animal kingdom live in a much more understanding world and not one one where the majority live in fear or react because of the kind of language humans think or try try to instill in their animals as being acceptable behaviour, yet if an equal balance of communication skills were used then all animals and humans would be 100% more accommodating and considerate towards each other.

Often we, at Nature's Physician, are asked to resolve physical, internal health and psychological issues which humans are having with their animals (as well as within family units) and all that is required to resolve many of these issues is something that all animals utilize on a minute and daily basis -'Universal language' and an understanding of the same. These are THE most important tools that we ALL have, but sadly tend not to use to their full potential, perhaps because our world has become too easy but ultimately seems now to be controlled by the Powers that be within Pharmaceutical and Producers market. Okay, and what are these tools we can hear you saying. Well, it's simple, it's our eyes and ears and the way we use or position our body language at any given time, without using any verbal language at all.

However, it also seems that many domesticated animals have learnt to use their 'basic instinct' to their advantage. Perhaps we could list a few examples :

• Many a cat knows to change it's purr when being or wanting stroked or if it wants some more food 
• Many a dog knows to put on that 'puppy dog' look to get what he/she wants 
• Pet sheep or calves know to bleat, or run round your ankles to get more attention/feed 
• Horses know to pop their head over the feed room door for that extra treat 

Trusting larger animals also know how to tell you when they want something or where they want to be scratched as they gently sidle up to you so that the exact area where they wish their attention can be reached.

So could it in fact be that they are trying hard to show us that Universal language is possible for all to use!

Let's look at it from an other simple angle, an angle that many of you can possibly relate to. We are often asked to visit boisterous or disobedient dogs or supposedly disobedient dogs or perhaps we could be so bold as to say 'misunderstood' dogs. So, with this in mind let us set a scene. You knock on a door to a troubled canine home. An adult answers, but in the background racing to the door you can hear a dog and 3 children all desperately trying hard to see who it is. The adult then asks the dog to move as well as the children, some of them retreat to the nearest window but the others ignore what is being asked of them, however the dog manages to sneak between all the legs and is out the door before you can say boo to a goose! In the interim however the adult raises his/her voice to the children who have not moved and, in the same voice/pitch, asks the dog to move back but all ignore the request. But why? Could it be that there is regular shouting in the home to which the children have taught themselves to turn a deaf ear to, could it be that the dog is so used to this same tone as well as sensing that the kids ignore the request after the third or fourth time so why shouldn't he, or could it be that the correct pitch has not been used or indeed even thought about for the particular dog which would automatically relay ''I'd better do' pitch.

However, if we give the latter comment an extra thought, if a larger animal is being scratched or groomed and moves slightly in a different direction, sadly many humans move with the larger animal and continues to scratch where the human wants to scratch but does not seem to realize that the animal is actually moving to where he/she wants scratched.

On a different tack, there are numerous videos and you tube footage's of animals helping other animals when in distress, yet taking a prime example of 'the human state of mind' let's consider the tribes who have been chased out of their ancestral lands for wealthy Arabs to build their new 'dream houses' on, but without a single hint or indeed gesture of building the Tribes people a home or indeed shelters in exchange anywhere else, in fact the Tribes peoples houses have been burnt to the ground and they have been chased off the land? 

Each human has legs, a heart, lungs, a voice, a head, a brain and should, under most circumstances, be considered equal and their needs respected where necessary

Why has the majority of the Human world become so greedy, hurtful, dictatorial and controlling.

Another example, 100 years ago we had 200,000 elephants, now in China alone there are only approximately 4,000, and with 96 being brutally poached, murdered chainsawed to death on a daily basis it is likely that they will become extinct within 20 years - -  and why, because of complete and utter greed. So, the largest animals of our planet will undoubtedly become only a digital figment of our imagination and why, because of human greed. Did we create elephants in the first place? did we create rhino's? what makes the Powers that be think they should murder such animals that were put on our planet to walk and share it with us. Links to Elephant pages to support. 

Agreeably we may not be able to do much at the top of the power trees but what we can do is start to reintroduce Universal language within our own homes and surrounding environments

Why not start to make a difference to your world around you today – here are a few pointers.

• Give your whole family a break from talking for half an hour a day, use expressions instead 
• Encourage all to share the workload in the home, especially children and try kindly to reduce what you presently expect the elderly to do 
• Take a gift to an elderly person who you know rarely sees anyone (link to suggestions for the elderly) or to support some one who has been taken in to hospital but whose family live far away and can't get to the hospital for a few hours
• Take time to sit on the floor with your dog and be a dog with him or her, play and act like a dog instead of being at the end of a dictatorial lead or at the end of a patting hand 
• Take time to sit in the paddock with your horse, cow or elephant and see how they could be made happier or what additional positive stimulation you could give them, especially if they are showing signs of negative behaviour 
• Take time to play with your children on their level 
• Take time to see the world from someone else s eyes no matter whether human or animal 

There are many more on our list of to do's but these will hopefully be a good base line for you all to start with.

Let's make a difference to the world around us and spread it so that it goes far and wide and just watch the positive ripple effect it will have on others whether man or beast.

On behalf of your own health, all children and animals of tomorrow and all those around you, to reduce the Cancers, the Skin Issues, I.B.S and Mental health issues, to mention just a few, please start today to create a healthier world for all NOW not tomorrow or the next day. If we don't do something about it now our present existence and state of health will be even more controlled than it is already. 

If you feel you would like to make a difference but can not see a way forward with an animal or human (young or old) please do not hesitate to ask us for help.

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Can you help to make people less greedy?

How lucky we are to be able to share a planet with these most gracious, gentle and beautiful creations of nature.

We are all creations of Nature, unique in every way and no living creature deserves to have the freedom of their planet taken away from them.

Greed is the only thing that is destroying our world, it's destructive, hurtful, cruel, unjust, contagious and unhealthy ( in more ways than one) - the list is endless.


Is there anything you could start doing today to eradicate the greed in people? If so, start with a small thing today and by next year you could have made a difference to 365 people and goodness knows how many more animals.

On behalf of all elephants and other animals under threat from Human greed - Thank you.

Feel free to take a look at this link -http://worldelephantday.org/about/elephants

9 months of Visits to a Doctor and no better, 2 days changing

"I was suffering from horrific headaches, tiredness, swollen tummy, feeling sick, full of wind and burping for the world and spent about 9 months of visiting my Doctors Surgery where I was given this medication and the next but no difference was made whatsoever. Being fed up of it it going on for so long it was suggested I contacted Nature's Physician and after changing my diet to specific foods after 2 days I was feeling a massive improvement.

On a scale out of -10 to + 10 for the 9 months I was feeling about -7 but just two days after altering what I ate and drank, and at what intervals and times I ate or drank the suggested products I felt a huge improvement, I'd say to about +3 and a week or so the scale moved up to +10. 

However, the Festive period and with having children who spoilt me with food and  a wonderful husband who treated me to a mass of chocolates as well as the odd meal out, I cheated. I thought 'mmm, I could maybe just have a little bit of this, O, and  little bit of that, I'm sure it wont make any difference. But my lack of a will powers caught up with me, and a week after the Festive period I plummeted. 

So, a rain check was had with Nature's Physician and the types of foods and fruits I was eating at the same time was changed and again, 2 days after that I jumped up to +4, then a couple of days, after my chemical balance caught up with itself I was feeling just wonderful. 

I have recommended Nature's Physician to many people and will continue to do so, I can't thank them enough". 

I need to try very hard to not let my lack of will power win me over again - it wasn't worth it at all!"

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Your help is needed . . . please watch this video . . .

Part of our passion and dedication is towards giving all animals a voice and their own choice in their book of life rather than humans dictating what kind of a life they think animals should live. 

With this in mind we are concentrating tonight on the life of one of the most awesome animals of our planet - The elephants. 

This link is a brief  but honest and passionate view point on the existence of our elephants of today, some of which is Historic and the methods of care should, in this day and age, be completely banned. 

We would ask you to take 5 minutes out to look at the above video post and perhaps afterwards share it on your own page. 

Here are some of our earlier articles written on Elephants -

A list to most of the Elephant facebook pages

Sunder the elephant held captive until last year

Elephant logo being used on Plastic bags -  being  used by The Scottish Governemnt yet not a penny goes towards the welfare of our elephants


Elephant drums ' The passion within'


An Elephant called Pearl at St Louis Zoo


These broken souls need your help

The world's cruelest zoo 


Two Elephants on our list to do


Pearl at St Louis Zoo 


An update on Pearl at St Louis Zoo 


Microsoft Paul Allen supports Elephant Survey 2014 



On behalf of all elephants 'Thank you for taking time to read this post

Painful Corns and Verruca's re-posted.

With it being wellie and boot time of year for many of us we are re-posting this popular post which was written back in 2013 with a view to helping you with your corns and verruca's.  

The Christmas and New Year aftermath!

So Christmas and the New Year Festivities are over and your whole body has probably had to cope with different types of food and drink which is foreign to it throughout the rest of the year. Yes, you have probably indulged in all those glorious desserts, starters, cakes and little treats that many a house leave out for nibbling including the left overs of that ever tempting and delicious trifle steeped in Brandy or Sherry. Not to mention the alcohol during the celebrations of the same.

Let's take a normal day – what does our digestive system and chemical balance generally have to cope with? We are aware that our meals change per person/family and that some people perhaps don't have breakfast or even lunch but for peace of mind, let's say we take an average of a light breakfast, a light lunch and a larger tea or supper consisting of :

Breakfast

Cereal, toast, butter/olivio, jam/cheese and perhaps a piece of fruit or tinned fruit.
Tea/Coffee/Water

or perhaps your breakfast consists of 3 cups of coffee and a cigarette or two to go with them!

Lunch

A sandwich (brown or white bread), butter/olivio, salad/cheese/ham/chicken/tomato
Chocolate biscuit, crisps
Tea/Coffee/water/fizzy juice/fresh juice

Supper/Dinner

Perhaps a starter – Soup and bread ( brown or white bread)
Main course - Meat/vegetarian meal, 1 or 2 vegetables
Dessert – Jelly and ice cream / yoghurt / piece of fruit
Tea/Coffee/Water

Pre Bed time drink of tea or coffee and a biscuit to go along with it perhaps.

Then all of a sudden it's coming up to Christmas eve – you are so busy getting organised and know you are going to be eating a massive meal on Christmas day so you decide a sandwich or perhaps even nothing is needed except for those midnight sausage rolls or mini sausages and one or two of those special biscuits that your children have decided to leave out for Santa! O and of course the numerous cups of coffee or tea to keep your caffeine levels up so that your eyes stay awake!

Then bang, it's Christmas morning, masses of vegetables to prepare, perhaps 5 or 6, ranging from Brussel sprouts, peas, brocolli, carrots, parsnips, potatoes to roast potatoes, then there's the two or three different types of meat, for arguments sake, let's say Turkey, Beef and Ham all roasted in their own fats and juices, O, and of course we can't forget the Yorkshire Puddings. 

Then for dessert, there's maybe 5 or 6 of them ranging from perhaps Strawberry pavalova, Trifle (pre soaked in half a bottle of Sherry of course), fruit salad (with various fruits mixed in for example, white grapes, black grapes, oranges, clemintines, banana's, apples both red and green, mango, peaches, pears, passion fruit and kiwi fruit with perhaps a little drop or two of Port or Champagne to give it that extra bite. Then there's a gateaux or two, not to mention the mince pies, Christmas pudding, Brandy butter, Cream, Brandy cream, milk and perhaps a sprinkle of sugar on top of the strawberries on the pavalova.

Then there's the cheese board, yes, that delicious cheese board with 9 or 10 different cheeses on it, along with a variety of cheese biscuits and of course the butter for the biscuits, followed by a liquer after you have had a glass or two of red or white wine or perhaps it could have been champagne.

So it takes all morning and perhaps the evening before to prepare all this yet it's all consumed within approximately an hour! Well just reading this back, to be honest just turns our stomachs! But sadly this is what the hype of Christmas has inflicted on us over the years just as it has probably inflicted stomach cramps, headaches/migraines, tiredness, bloated stomachs, acid reflux, skin issues, itchy feet to mention just a few!

It doesn't take a minute for anyone to spend just a short period of time on Google to investigate the types of fats and sugars (Glucose, Fructose and Sucrose) that are in fruits and vegetables just as many other sites are available with regards the acids that we inflict on our systems, often at the same time as the varying sugars, perhaps this link on natural  acids in fruits and vegetables might interest you 

Natural Acids in Vegetables and Fruits . 

However the other thing that many of us don't even give a seconds thought to are the sprays or the type of process that our fruit, vegetables and meats have to go through before they even get on the Supermarket shelves, perhaps something else worthwhile investigating if you have a spare minute or two. There definitely is something in finding a local producer who you can ask what they feed or bed their animals on or indeed how they treat their crops of fruit and vegetables.  Why not find a local producer and savour the difference yourself .

Back on to the aftermath of Christmas or any celebration for that matter, many people end up at the Doctors within a fortnight after such festivities and as a solution to the health issues experienced, are given some form of medication to reduce the symptoms, but this often adds more chemicals to your existing chemical balance, where as if you were to stick to the foods that were good for your particular chemical balance then many of your symptoms would naturally disappear within 24 to 48 hours never to return at least until you cheated again!

As an example, if you eat or drink a lot of different fruits (or smoothies) within a short period of time then the result could be that dreadful bloated feeling, or a migraine, or stomach cramps. Just as if you decide to go for a second portion of your main course but based with a different meat then the fats from the first meat you ate and the second (again within such a short period of time) can cause stomach pains and diarrhea.

To summarize, often the sugars and acids from the food we eat coagulates once digested just as cream coagulates if you pour some in to a boiling stew or soup pan! So really, is there any surprise that we often suffer after such a festive period or celebration!

To resolve these health issues or deter them appearing in the first place if you were to realize which foods are good for you then perhaps next year you will think twice about what you cook for your Christmas meal and indeed how you cook it, in fact, perhaps you might even think twice about what meat you buy, and where you buy it from and exactly the same goes for the fruit and vegetables you use.

If you are struggling with any of the health issues above or feel you are either unhappy with taking so much medication or would like to find out more about the foods that suit your specific chemical balance or want to find yourself in a better state of health naturally, then now is your chance. Contact us

Don't forget, we are what we eat just as your petrol car would not run to its' full potential if you were to fill it with diesel or your diesel car would not run at all if you filled it up with petrol!

On top of the true fact that we are what we eat, each emotional issue we experience in life can also have a detrimental effect on our chemical balance, so, be prepared early, eat healthy now and your immune system will be better able to cope in the future.

In the meantime we would like to wish all our viewers a very happy but more importantly Healthy New Year. 

Good eating to you all.

and your health will rarely fall.

More to follow soon . . .

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